Infantilism, Diapers And Ageplay

Simply put, those into the infantilism fetish, referred to as adult baby are those that live like a real baby, or loving those that indulge in the fetish. These same people often live their life as a real baby in an adults size and age. They dress as such, even wearing real diapers, enjoying diaper changes on a regular basis. They also play with baby toys such as rattles and pacifiers, even spending their nap and play time in play pens.

Paraphilic infantilism is the desire to wear diapers and be treated as a helpless infant. [1] One who engages in infantilistic play is known as an adult baby (AB). Adult babies and diaper fetishists (diaper lovers or DLs) are collectively known by the acronym AB/DL. The majority of known infantilists are heterosexual males

The easiest way to describe paraphilic infantilism is to contrast it with a diaper fetish, and this contrast is most clear in fantasies. Although there is no typical AB/DL fantasy, they often fall within two extremes. One extreme involves the fantasy of being an infant or small child; adorable, sexually innocent, and powerless. The infant fantasy might involve diapers, baby clothes, and toys to help define the infant's role, as costume and props. In the end, the infant might drift off to sleep in a soft crib. On the other extreme is the erotic lover. The lover fantasy would focus on diapers as fetish items, sexually charged objects. The lover fantasy would end in orgasm and ejaculation.

Most who have these fantasies do not seek psychotherapy [3][4]. According to the American Psychiatric Association, if there is significant distress or impairment for a period of over six months, paraphilic infantilism or fetishism might be diagnosed, depending on the focus[5]. The urges and fantasies caused by diaper fetishes focus on the diapers themselves, while infantilism focuses on becoming a baby. (Please note that many published cases are only tangentially related[6][7][8] to infantilism and diaper fetishism and should not be confused with the basic paraphilias [9].)

In practice, the distinction is between the two is much narrower; both involve diapers and adults. Those who try to act out the infant fantasy or similar ones are called Adult Babies (ABs). This may involve adult sized diapers and baby clothes, etc[10]. If their partner is willing, they may engage in mother/baby roleplay. The adult baby may choose not to engage in sex while they are in the baby role, since it isn't babylike. In contrast, diaper fetishes are much more practical. They may involve adding diapers to otherwise ordinary sexual activities[11]. Those who do are called Diaper Lovers (DLs). Neither are adult baby practices exclusive to paraphilic infantilists, nor diaper lover practices exclusive to diaper fetishists. Many AB/DLs describe themselves as 'mostly AB' or 'mostly DL,' based on which they engage in more frequently. Those with urophilia and coprophilia may enjoy similar practices.

Adult Baby, AB:
Maybe Paraphilic infantilism
Self-image/alter-ego focused
Roleplay, such as baby with mommy
Sexual relationship with partner separate from adult baby play

Diaper Lover, DL:
Maybe Diaper Fetish
Focused on an external object
No inherent roleplay
Diaper lover play is actively sexual

Reference: Infantilism

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