Fist Fetish

Fist Fetish - Some women enjoy vaginal fisting (having all or most of their lover's hand in their vagina). This is DEFINITELY a case where you should proceed only with your partner's active and ongoing encouragement and within her comfort level. However, the basic technique is as follows: with your hand palm up (and your lover on her back or on all fours) bring your fingers and thumb together to form something that looks like a duck bill. With massaging, and possibly gentle twisting motions, slowly tease your hand into her vagina. If your anatomies allows it, once you get past the third knuckles your fingers will start to gently and naturally curve back to form a fist. Anal fisting uses the same basic hand technique, but with different lube and more preparation.

It’s easy to bruise, cut, or tear your vagina, so you should take the same care to protect it whenever anything goes into it. The inner parts of the vagina are mucous membranes, so a good rule is to make sure that your play is less aggressive here. Anything inserted into the vagina should be properly washed and have no sharp edges.

Although painful for most, fist fetish is alive and still very popular. It may be the very pain, often intense pain that induces the sexual pleasure for those that enjoy this type of hardcore sex act. If you are not knowledgeable with this extreme fetish, it is the actually insertion of a human fist into the virgina or into the anus, sometimes even both at one time. Insertion and repeated insertion of the fist is the sexual high for these fetish lovers, whether it be the giver or the taker.

This can be a dangerous sexual fetish and should not be attempted by individuals without the proper knowledge or skill. Ample amounts of lubrication and a condom should be worn at all times to protect those involved.

Fisting takes time and plenty of trust, but the women and men who can take a whole hand vaginally or anally usually claim that it leads them to transcendent, ecstatic altered states.

As mentioned, this fetish is practiced on both the vigina and the anus. Gay anal fisting is also a very popular sexual experience, often parties are arranged to perform the fetish in a group setting.

As a final note, the BDSM community in the U.S. is currently quite active, with educational and play organizations popping up in almost every state of the union. Classes and play parties may already be offered in your area on a regular basis.